Yes, You Can Be Too Nice

By Tracey Ashcraft, MA LPC
 

In kindergarten we were taught to be nice to others. As we grew older we were taught to think of others and not be self-centered. As humans we tend to enjoy the company of others, especially if they are being nice to us. So when does “being nice” cross into a more harmful way of being “too nice”? If you are feeling like a doormat, being taken advantage of, or feeling manipulated then you may have fallen into a coping pattern of being too nice.

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In kindergarten we were taught to be nice to others. As we grew older we were taught to not be self-centered and to think of others. As humans we tend to enjoy the company of others, especially if they are being nice to us. So when does “being nice” cross into the more harmful “too nice”? If you are feeling like a doormat, being taken advantage of, or feeling manipulated then you may have fallen into a coping pattern of being too nice.  

How do I know if I am being too nice?

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